For Pros: Joining with Teens in Therapy

For Pros: Joining with Teens in Therapy

The other day I was going through some old grad school papers and I found the following short paper I wrote as a MFT student in 1996 when I didn't have very much experience working with adolescents. Looking back on it now 17 years later, even though I've certainly learned a lot since then as a specialist working with teens, I'm happy to say I was definitely on the right track.

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Q&A for Pros: Recommendations for a 12-year-old Who Lies and Steals?

Q&A for Pros: Recommendations for a 12-year-old Who Lies and Steals?

Quick question about a 12 year old who was adopted and was sent away for a serious lying/stealing problem. These behaviors have not surfaced completely since he came. I wondered if you had any recommendations for literature for him to read that might speak to his lying/stealing?

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Q&A for Pros: Looking for Work? Do a Networking Blitz!

Q&A for Pros: Looking for Work? Do a Networking Blitz!

Q: I have a friend just graduated with his masters in clinical psychology and is looking for a job (does not have his license yet). Do you know of any places that may be hiring?

A: No specific places, but I have four networking suggestions…

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Practice Builders—Technology and Remote Counseling

Practice Builders—Technology and Remote Counseling

In the past it was local or nothing. Now my clients can choose who they work with. They can have real "continuity of care" rather than hope they find a good therapist when they move (and as we know, most don't make that transition to a new therapist successfully, and more than often drop out of counseling altogether). They no longer have to start over with someone new and tell their whole story fresh again. They have the freedom of continuing the work they began. And new clients from these places get to access who they want to work with. It is truly making it more and more client-centered, which is what we believe in this field, but sometimes isn't realized. Technology is giving my clients more choice and with choice comes power.

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For My Colleagues: Making It as an Entrepreneur

For My Colleagues: Making It as an Entrepreneur

Personally, there's no going back to the pencil factory for me (i.e., mental health agency or working for someone else in my case). LOVE working for self and CREATING!!! Tough, nerve-wracking, fantastic. If you've got the passion and heart to put yourself out there and aren't too risk-averse I highly recommend this crazy wonderful life.

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Clients on Facebook? Okay or Not?

Clients on Facebook? Okay or Not?

Q: Do you ever say yes to a client's friend request on Facebook? And if so what are your rules about it? I have some that want to keep in touch with me after I move but I am just not sure and don't want to make a bad choice but there isn't much said about 'internet' and 'Facebook' stuff?"

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For Pros: Working with Latency-Age Children

For Pros: Working with Latency-Age Children

A new, young and talented therapist in the field just passed his licensure exam and is going to be working with latency-age children. He asked for some literature and recommendations for working with this population. I LOVE to encourage and mentor the next generation of therapists, as I'm sure you do as well. I'm putting together a few notes, ideas and reading list for him and would value your recommendations as well (for him as well as for me). Just enter your recommendations in the comments below. THANK YOU FOR YOUR INPUT!

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